Condolence From: Stephen Slack
Condolence: I knew Jess for a very short time. But, she would always message me a few times a week asking how me and my wife were doing. This was a few times a week and I’d message her as well. I stopped using FB & social media these past few months. So, I sent a few messages via SC & when I noticed no reply I checked her FB page. I’m heartbroken & shocked. I’m a writer and for the first time I’ve got no words. I’m so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to her family & friends....
Thursday May 24, 2018
Condolence From: Linda Walkup
Condolence: Dear Virginia and Guy and Family--I just found out the very sad news today about your daughter, Jessica. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. Sincerely, Linda Walkup
Thursday March 22, 2018
Condolence From: Noah Kress
Condolence: It's really difficult to think of anything to say that will be any sort of comfort. Jess was one of my favorite people from the moment I met her. She was intelligent, really funny and of course beautiful. I've lost many people already in my short life but besides close family members this one has hit me the hardest. It's as if my mind doesn't want to accept that she's gone. I keep thinking to text or call her so I can tell her some good news or share something funny but then reality rushes in and I choke back tears. I'll never forget her and the wonderful times we had together. You're only truly gone when the memory of you fades so as long as I'm still here so will be the memory of Jess. That I can promise.
I'm so, so sorry Mr. and Mrs. Ruhl. I'll keep praying for your family.
Wednesday March 07, 2018
Condolence From: Brittany Tyson
Condolence: Mr. and Mrs. Ruhl - I'm so glad to have gotten the chance to meet you all through Jess. She was truly such a dear friend, with the kindest heart. I'm devastated at the loss and my heart aches for you all and her siblings and nieces and nephews. As well as Dave and his family. I will miss her tremendously and pray for you all and that she is now at peace.
Brittany
Tuesday February 27, 2018
Condolence From: Mary and Tom McDaniel
Condolence: You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will make a donation in Jessica's name. We wish your family peace. God bless.
Sunday February 11, 2018
Condolence From: Amy Sechrist
Condolence: Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ruhl , I worked with your daughter Jess at Lancaster general. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I was so sad and am heartbroken for your loss. Jess was so smart, friendly and kind. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Friday February 09, 2018
Condolence From: Shelly Weaver
Condolence: Ginny and family...I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. I’m sending you love and prayers to get through this difficult time.
Friday February 09, 2018
Condolence From: Di Stefano family ( Carini's Italian Restaurant )
Condolence: We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our deepest condolences go out to your family. May she rest in peace. We will pray for your family's peace. We are here if you need anything at all. In our prayers.
Thursday February 08, 2018
Condolence From: Nicole Vanart
Condolence: I am so sorry to all who knew and loved Jess. Although we may not always understand why things happen and i know your hearts are breaking, her pain is gone and she is in a wonderful place where one day we will all meet again. Thoughts are with all of you, may beautiful memories bring you peace 💙
Wednesday February 07, 2018
Condolence From: Rob, Michele, Paige and Nathan Golay
Condolence: Our love and prayers go out to you Guy, Ginny, Jason and Erin. Rob and I loved Jess and considered her as one of our children. We are so proud of her accomplishments and we always told her so. We will miss her and hope that she is at peace with our Lord. Until we see her again, we will keep her in our hearts. God bless you! We are here for you.
Wednesday February 07, 2018
Condolence From: martha shreiner
Condolence: Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ruhl and Family,
I am deeply saddened about the passing of Jessi. I was her sixth grade teacher at Blue Ball Elementary School.
Jessi was a kind, caring, helpful and intelligent girl who was loved and respected by her classmates.
She looked for and found the good in the other children. Her maturity was beyond what was normally found in grade six.
Jessi left an imprint on the hearts of all of us who knew ,admired and loved her.
I am asking our lORD TO HOLD YOU CLOSE AND BRING COMFORT TO YOU IN THE WEEKS AHEAD.
With sympathy and respect,
Martha Shreiner
Wednesday February 07, 2018
Condolence From: Kayla Gross/Corey Smeltzer
Condolence: Our condolences to the family and to Dave. I didn't know her personally, but heard many wonderful things and know she was a great person. Time will heal, but she will never be forgotten. I will pray everyday for you all.
Wednesday February 07, 2018
Condolence From: Colleen Davis
Condolence: Dear Guy, Virginia and families, All the words in the world would not be enough to say how sorry I am for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Wednesday February 07, 2018
Condolence From: Steve and Ralene Kreiser
Condolence: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Truly heartbreaking.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Nathan, Devon, & Ryan Caswell
Condolence: Guy,Virginia,Jason,and Erin tears are in my eyes as I write this. Jess was such a nice, sweet girl and will be missed by all. Have faith that she is in a better place and always will be in your hearts. Our prayers go out to you guys, be strong and celebrate her life.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: The Siberry Family
Condolence: Our deepest condolences to your family.
Wishing you peace in this time of sorrow.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Andrea Mellen
Condolence: Ruhl Family,
I was so saddened to hear of Jess's passing today. I only spent time with her on a few occasions but I knew her as a wonderfully kind, welcoming, and fun person. I was not exceptionally close with her but knowing that she is no longer with us is absolutely heartbreaking and although I know it cannot possibly fill the void, I would like to offer the only thing I can: my deepest condolences. If there is anything I can do to help you in what must be an extremely difficult time, please do not hesitate to reach out.
Love, Andrea Mellen
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Saintalia
Condolence: My deepest condolences to Jessica's Family and Boyfriend and those who loved her.
Jess was a pleasure to work and chat with at Lancaster General. She would always greeted me with a smile. Since I suffer from depression, it was a beautiful treasure to see her when passing by on very hectic day in the hospital. She will be missed terribly. I send my love and prayers to you all who have been touched by her spirit.
God Bless in Love, Peace and Light!
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: The Hicks Family
Condolence: Guy & Ginny,
You have such a wonderful family.Our thoughts and prayers are with your family, in this time of great loss.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Debbie Lauchnor
Condolence: To the Ruhl family,
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Jess at the Y. She was always so kind and helpful. I can’t imagine how much you will miss her. You are all in my prayers,
Debbie Lauchnor
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: David Horne, CDR, USN (RET)
Condolence: Jess was the very first person who I interfaced with when I first moved to the area and was looking for the "Y". She was extremely lovely, charming and most helpful. You've heard of making a good first impression? She made the ultimate first impression most memorable. My most heartfelt condolences at her passing. Your family is in my prayers.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Kelli
Condolence: My deepest sympathy to the Ruhl family. To see Jessica here one minute and gone the next is devastating. It shows us how precious life really is because our biggest enemy in life is death. Death takes a toll on everyone and brings upon so many emotions that we all can relate to. We need comfort from the pain within, we need assurance that in due time this pain will ease, we need hope that there is more to life than what meets the eye. Pray for strength and understanding of this trial. Look to the scriptures for comfort as well as hope because God promised a Resurrection hope through the ransom sacrifice of his Son Jesus Christ. Hope will keep us going and it will bring comfort in due time. So lets not say goodbye, but until we meet again... (2 Corinthians 1:3,4; Acts 24:15; Revelation 21:3,4)
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: The Kahler Family
Condolence: Deepest sympathies to the entire Ruhl family! Jess will remain forever in our hearts. Her kindness, love, and sweet smile will be remembered always. May happy memories fill your emptiness and somehow comfort you in your loss. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers!
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Bonnie(Lorah) Sheetz
Condolence: Dear Martha, I was deeply sadden to hear of the loss of your granddaughter Jessica. My deepest sympathy to your entire family, this is surely a tragedy for all. Always your friends The Lorah family. Bonnie Sheetz and Barbara Messner.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Lisa Burke
Condolence: My deepest condolences to you and your family. My prayers go out to you.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Pauline (McEwen) Keys
Condolence: Ginny and Guy, There are no words to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I hope that you and your family cherish the memories of Jess and that you feel the love from all around you. My thoughts and prayers are with you both, Jason and Erin as well as the rest of your family during this very difficult time. Love, Pauline
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Robert and Denise Geahr
Condolence: May god grant your peace at this time of the deepest sorrow, there are no words to express how heartbroken we are at her loss and our deepest condolences to the Ruhr and Hillard family.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Julie Zimmerman
Condolence: Our love and prayers to your family.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Mathiot Family
Condolence: WE are so sorry for your loss. Jess was very warm and kind and we will cherish the memory of the time we spent with her. We hope our thoughts and prayers will help you all through this difficult time.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: D. Martin
Condolence: I am so sad for the loss of Jess. I’d gotten to know her over the past few years and her capacity to love and do good always was evident. She was a wonderful person who will be missed. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. My prayers are with you all.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Laura Gamble
Condolence: Celebrating the life of an amazing young lady (whom I still fondly remember playing with when we were both little girls!) and mourning her passing with you. Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort as you remember Jess.
Tuesday February 06, 2018
Condolence From: Joanne Ashcroft
Condolence: My heart is breaking for Jess’s family and friends. May God grant you strength and healing thru this difficult time. I will miss seeing her smiling face at the front desk of the YMCA as I clock in for work. Peace Jess.
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Jennifer Brandt Schwartz
Condolence: Guy, Ginny, Jason, Erin:
I am so sorry and devastated for your loss. I will always remember Jess as that sweet little girl who helped me with her little brother and sister when I would babysit. My deepest sympathies are with all of you and the rest of your family and loved ones. My prayers are with all of you and for Jess, that she may Rest In Peace.
Love, Jenn
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Melissa Freed
Condolence: Jess was such a sweet and positive young lady that I got to know from the YMCA. Her beautiful smile was a pleasure to be greeted with each time I entered the building. She was always so encouraging and knew just what to say to make me feel better if I was having a rough day. God gained an angel. Fly high dear friend.
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Plesnarski Family
Condolence: We are deeply saddened by the loss of a dear neighbor and such a wonderful young lady. Jessica was always an extremely polite and kind person and will be greatly missed. The Ruhl family are tremendously kind people and our hearts are broken for you.
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Lori Groff
Condolence: I'm so sorry for your loss. My daughter trained with Jessica at the YMCA. Jessica was also there for my daughter when her brother and my son took his life. I know your pain. Praying for all of you.
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Amanda Heagy
Condolence: Jess was an extremely kind and loving person and will be deeply missed by so many. Thinking of the entire Ruhl and Hilliard family.
Monday February 05, 2018
Condolence From: Rick and Diane Caswell
Condolence: Guy, Ginny and Family,
No words can ease your pain or express how deep our sorrow is for all of you. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers and we send you our love and and deepest sympathies.
Rick and Diane Caswell
Monday February 05, 2018